Baby, you're a star
As a woman you have ancient power. You can do an incredible amount and you do. Until the moment that it’s almost no longer possible and you really don’t know how to keep all the balls in the air. As a mother, as a partner, as a colleague. Every woman encounters this at some point. That’s okay, because it’s an opening to your authentic self, see it as a moment to grow, to find your true strength. To become the star you have in you.
Developing female leadership
Every woman longs for it, an effortlessly lighter life. Full of peace, balance, connection and fun in yourself, in your family and at work. You do that by being true to yourself. As a coach, therapist, anthropologist and mother of four children, I guide you to discover and develop your inner strength. This is how you bring out the authentic leader in yourself. And what a wonderful example this is to give to our children and especially to our daughters.
What can you contact me for?
Trauma EMDR and Hypnotherapy
Systemic work (family and team setups)
Female authentic leadership (business)
Children & Youth coaching
Female sexual wisdom
Walking coaching, retreats and
What's really going on?
As an anthropologist I look at the undercurrent. I look at what can be seen and heard. What is really going on in this dynamic? I have learned to look ‘differently’ and make unexpected connections. I participate, empathize and give you insight and overview. I work systemically with family, team and organizational constellations and analyze your family and work dynamics and your role in them. Once you are aware of this, the door to a more balanced life is open.
EMDR and hypnotherapy
Inside every woman is a wounded inner child. Unconsciously we react to our environment from this childhood trauma, for example by reacting very emotionally to our children. Or we are triggered by our partner or that one dominant colleague. My specialization as a therapist in trauma (EMDR and hypnotherapy) and high sensitivity allows me to detect and treat the trauma and unprocessed grief. Living positively with trauma is tending to your wounds, rather than surviving despite your wounds.
A balanced life revolves around YOU
When you feel good about yourself, you unlock the ability to create balance, tranquility, connections and joy in yourself, in your family and at work.
Be a star in your field
As an anthropologist and therapist, I will work with you to find your inner self and help you develop your feminine leadership. For yourself, within your family or at work. I also organize retreats. These four work areas are my Star Fields.
Star Field 1
Do you want to bring out the best in yourself? I let you see and feel the blind spots, ingrained patterns, (sexual) traumas and unprocessed emotions. In this way you come into contact with your own strength and qualities.
Star Field 2
As a parent, do you sometimes no longer know how to keep all the balls high? Frustrations and irritations are lurking if you are less relaxed with your children and partner. I bring you back to yourself, give you confidence and help you prioritize. By looking at yourself with more love, you become stronger and happier. And your family too.
Star Field 3
Do you run into your own limits at work? I guide you to develop your female leadership and to deal differently with your work situation. I can teach you to stay with yourself more and make choices from there. I provide business coaching both individually and for teams or departments. Always personal, always tailor-made.
Star Field 4
Life is a journey. As an anthropologist and therapist, I would like to take you on an adventure. A different environment can do wonders. Outside your own world you are more open to yourself and to the thoughts and feelings of others. I take you with your daughter, or with women who, like you, are looking for their inner leader.
Since 2010 I have guided more than 1000 clients
"One conversation with Jet immediately gave me a different perspective and the insight into how my own expectations already influenced my behavior unnoticed. She also immediately showed me how I could change that."
"Jet is a loving, enthusiastic, radiant woman who works with a lot of attention and involvement. She uses her feeling, playfulness, curiosity and knowledge, together with intuition and insight."
"Jet shares with great enthusiasm and pleasure what she has gathered in the many years of personal development and training."
"Everyone sometimes runs into things that you cannot solve yourself. It is always so nice to talk to Jet at those moments. With her experience and pleasant way of working, she makes you aware of the patterns, possible causes and other ways to deal with things to go. I recommend it!"
"My experience with Jet is very pleasant and good. She is careful. Jet has experience in many areas due to her studies and broad knowledge. She gives you the space to gain insights in a pleasant environment. Her energy feels powerful, pure and soothing. I'm a fan 💖!"
Coach & therapist, anthropologist, and experience expert
My name is Henriette Ruth Sternefeld-de Beer, but everyone calls me Jet. I am a psychosocial therapist & coach and anthropologist, but above all I am a mother of four beautiful children.
I’ve always been interested in how people make sense of the world around them. After high school I started traveling and alone and far from home I really came into contact with other religions and cultures for the first time. I then studied Psychology and Cultural Anthropology at the University of Utrecht. This background gives my guidance a special perspective.
I myself grew up through trial and error and draw from my own experiences in my therapy. As a child and young adult I didn’t always have it easy. I was the only girl in a family of three older brothers and my parents divorced when I was four. I had no contact with my father for 35 years after I was fifteen, and I struggled a lot with that.
Thanks to various courses, I am now specialized in working with traumas (EMDR, hypnotherapy), family and organizational constellations, high sensitivity and female sexual wisdom. As a partner to a hard-working husband and mother of four, I’ve gone through everything every woman goes through sooner or later. And I came out of that as a stronger and more complete woman. I wish you the same.